By introduction
Membership begins with a conversation. Tell us who you are, what you are seeking, and who sent you. The concierge replies within two days, and every application is considered in confidence.

Membership
The Club
Mon Nii is not a directory, and it is not a spa menu. It is a private circle for people who believe that healing deserves rare settings, rare hands, and a little silence around it.
Membership is by introduction — from a friend, a fellow member, or simply your own well-worded note. If the fit is right, the concierge will welcome you in and walk you through the details personally.
By introduction
Membership begins with a conversation. Tell us who you are, what you are seeking, and who sent you. The concierge replies within two days, and every application is considered in confidence.
A small circle
We keep the book intimate so the work can be deep. Members receive first notice of residencies, retreat openings, and new practitioners joining John's circle.
Discretion, always
Your privacy is part of the architecture. Names, notes, and session details are held in strict confidence — this is a sanctuary by design, not by accident.
What membership opens
Private appointments with John Wing Flower at The Spa at Hotel Chelsea, with Dr. Jen Clemons in Marin County, or over Zoom. Each session is tailored to what you are carrying.
Short, deliberately limited windows when John opens his book at The Spa at Hotel Chelsea. Members hear the dates first.
Small-group journeys — six to eight members — where John travels with the group, offering daily one-on-one sessions, ceremonies, and group work in extraordinary places.
How to join
Use the concierge form to share a little about yourself, your interest, and whether you have been referred by a current member.
The concierge will respond within two days. If membership feels like a fit, we will arrange a brief, private exchange to answer your questions.
Once welcomed, you may book sessions, join waitlists for residencies, and receive first access to retreat announcements.
Refer a kindred spirit
Current members may invite someone they believe belongs here. If you would like to refer a friend, mention their name when you write, or ask them to include yours in their note. Every referral is received with gratitude and reviewed with the same care as any introduction.
Make an introductionNot yet a member?
A session or retreat can sometimes be arranged as an introduction to the club. Share what calls to you, and the concierge will guide you from there.
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